Carpet python wont eat!?

at first i thought it was just winter so i let them go into brumation (male and female together) i recently took them out of brumation a couple weeks ago, and have tried feeding them twice, they wouldn't eat! is it just a hunger strike or something? pleases help, i dont think shes gravid shes to skinny! also shes been frantically trying to get out of the cage, neither of them will eat, nor will a couple of my other snakes :( what am i doing wrong!